# I AM NOT YOUR “BBW”: Debunking Fat Stereotypes, Misconceptions, & Fetishization

Society struggles to find the right way to address plus size women, as if we need a special type of acknowledgement beyond a standard compliment. Some prefer “thick,” “voluptuous,” “fluffy,” ” chubby,” or “full figured,” words with a softer approach of description. Others prefer the more cut and dried adjectives, like “big” or “fat.” People … More # I AM NOT YOUR “BBW”: Debunking Fat Stereotypes, Misconceptions, & Fetishization

Other Things to Do On Holidays Besides Focusing On Fat Family Members

As we all know, Thanksgiving & Christmas are holidays centered around food and family. Though, specifically, Thanksgivings origins are quite problematic, Americans have taken it on as a celebration of those with whom you are the closest and giving thanks for them. Families nationwide gather the living room of the chosen home and bond together … More Other Things to Do On Holidays Besides Focusing On Fat Family Members

Captain Flower Power

Lemme tell y’all, YA GIRL STRUGGLED THIS HALLOWEEN! This has never been my holiday. First of all,  I’m extremely scary and I got a sensitive spirit, so the abundance of ridiculously frightening commercials and friends pushing me to go to various themed parks where things jump out at you without warning don’t exactly appeal to … More Captain Flower Power

Being the Fat Friend

BEING THE FAT FRIEND. THESE are my besties. The wildcats, as we call ourselves. My friends have always been smaller than me. Even through the expected weight fluctuations of adulthood, I’ve remained the biggest one. At times I like the diversity it gives our girl group. It’s a guilty pleasure not having to talk about … More Being the Fat Friend